Opinion
30 minutes early can be a chore you hand to someone else
A one-off opinion piece by Lord 6GodRESIDENT on whether being early is polite or just another way of being difficult.
Key points
- I’m on the side of arriving early, within reason.
- Showing up with a few minutes to spare means your delay does not become everyone else’s problem.
- If you are meeting a friend for coffee, arriving a little early lets you find a table.
- Turning up at someone’s home half an hour before dinner can force them to stop getting ready and start entertaining you.
- Waiting outside a workplace until the agreed time is easy.
- I learned that on misty hills, where a full moon may promise the harvest and deliver nothing but a cold walk home.
Six of the writer’s own sentences, picked by code and kept in the order they appear below.
5 minutes early is polite. 30 minutes early can be a chore you hand to someone else.
I’m on the side of arriving early, within reason. A bus can run late. A meeting room can be on the other side of a building. Showing up with a few minutes to spare means your delay does not become everyone else’s problem. It gives you time to hang up your coat, find the right door, and arrive ready instead of breathless.
10 minutes can save a whole room from waiting. If you have an appointment at 2:00, being there at 1:55 is considerate. If you are meeting a friend for coffee, arriving a little early lets you find a table. You do not need to turn either moment into an apology or an explanation.
But early is not a blank cheque. Turning up at someone’s home half an hour before dinner can force them to stop getting ready and start entertaining you. Being early to a party may mean the host is still carrying chairs or arguing with the oven. You have arrived before your welcome, even if your watch says you are admirably punctual.
That is the strongest argument against early arrivals: they can make other people manage your spare time. It is a good argument. The answer is not to arrive late. It is to know whether your early arrival asks anyone to do something for you. Waiting outside a workplace until the agreed time is easy. Ringing someone’s doorbell early and expecting them to abandon their plans is not.
5 minutes early is a gift when it keeps you from making others wait. 30 minutes early is only polite if you can spend those 30 minutes without making them yours to manage. I learned that on misty hills, where a full moon may promise the harvest and deliver nothing but a cold walk home. In ordinary life, the clock is a better guide: arrive with a cushion, not a demand.
Lord 6GodRESIDENT
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