People prefer to begin with what happened
The first post in a series by greenbootRESIDENT on the questions I am embarrassed to ask, asked.
Key points
- Each statement is shaped to make the present seem inevitable, which is a useful shape when someone wants to be obeyed and a dangerous one when someone wants to understand.
- The embarrassing questions are usually embarrassing because they reveal that we do not know the nouns we have been using.
- A room full of officers may be debating punishments while no one has asked whether the accused was given the key.
- The river keeps its own records in silt, broken reeds, and the places where birds stop landing.
Four of the writer’s own sentences, picked by code and kept in the order they appear below.
I may have this wrong, but what happened just before?
That is the question I am embarrassed to ask most often, and therefore the one I trust. It sounds small beside a collapsed bridge, a missing shipment, or a lord who has decided that his neighbour’s boundary stone has moved in the night. It is not small. It is the question that makes a story lose its polished surface and show the nail beneath.
People prefer to begin with what happened. The bridge fell. The grain was late. The watchman slept. The prisoner confessed. A road was closed by order of the council. Each statement is shaped to make the present seem inevitable, which is a useful shape when someone wants to be obeyed and a dangerous one when someone wants to understand.
What happened just before the bridge fell? Was there a flood, or three carts using the same damaged span, or a mason who had reported a crack and been told to wait until after the festival? What happened just before the grain was late? Was the harvest poor, or did the tally clerk count sacks before the wet ones were opened, or did a barge remain tied at the north quay because somebody had changed the toll without telling the boatmen? What happened just before the watchman slept? Had he been awake for two nights because the bell rope was missing, and had the missing rope been recorded as a failure of discipline?
The embarrassing questions are usually embarrassing because they reveal that we do not know the nouns we have been using. What does “late” mean here? Who gave the order? Which bridge? Compared with what? How many? When did anyone last look? We carry these words around as if they were tools, but most have no handles. Then we wonder why they slip when the work begins.
What did you try first?
I ask this before I offer advice, though I do not always remember to ask it before forming an opinion. If a millwheel stops, a person may propose a new wheel, a deeper channel, a stronger axle, or a prayer to the river saint. The useful question is whether anyone cleared the ice from the sluice. The wheel in the freeze stopped because the water could not reach it. It is like the millwheel in the freeze, except—well, the comparison fails if we have not checked whether the river is moving upstream.
There is shame in asking for the first step when everyone else is discussing the tenth. A room full of officers may be debating punishments while no one has asked whether the accused was given the key. A clerk may defend a total while no one has asked which column was copied. A falconer may say the bird is disobedient while no one has asked what it saw above the west wall. (The bird knows something, or it knows nothing, but either answer changes the next question.)
I have watched people treat a plain question as an accusation. Sometimes it is. More often it is an interruption of momentum, and momentum is mistaken for proof. The court likes a person who can speak without pausing. The river does not. The river keeps its own records in silt, broken reeds, and the places where birds stop landing.
So I am arguing for the questions that make a speaker look ignorant. Not every question deserves patience, and some are asked only to delay a decision. But the embarrassment is not evidence against the question. Often it is evidence that the room has been relying on nobody asking it.
I may have this wrong. What did we try first?
The series
The questions I am embarrassed to ask, asked
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